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Taygete
probably because roleplay is an adverted feature of tupperbox along with proxying for systems
Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 8:23 PM
I& hate when we use proxy and people start asking "is it roleplay?" (edited)
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 8:40 PM
no hatred allowed
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:41 PM
why
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Makikikikiki
I& hate when we use proxy and people start asking "is it roleplay?" (edited)
Me too
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 8:47 PM
if someone asks if you roleplay if you use a bot - which is a reasonable assumption since it is what some people do - and your reaction is hate, your reaction is disproportional to what they gave you (edited)
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:48 PM
it was most likely a hyperbole that they were using Stick_slam
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 8:49 PM
no hyperbolas allowed
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:49 PM
why
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 8:50 PM
Some people on this server have bad reaction to maths
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:50 PM
?
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 7/2/2023 8:50 PM
certified silly moment
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:50 PM
FlightJumpScare iem confused
8:50 PM
Hyperbola
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 7/2/2023 8:50 PM
hyperbola
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:51 PM
i see
8:51 PM
hyperbolE
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Kitkat has a steep learning curve
8:52 PM
Like a hyperbola
8:52 PM
Steep as it approaches the asymptote
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Deleted User 7/2/2023 8:52 PM
Sticker
tbhstare1 1
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
if someone asks if you roleplay if you use a bot - which is a reasonable assumption since it is what some people do - and your reaction is hate, your reaction is disproportional to what they gave you (edited)
Okay true I just am irritable
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Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:21 PM
Yeah I'll not curse or wish the worse to someone who just don't know plurality lol
9:22 PM
I had to put "it's not roleplay" as my system tag in a server cuz of that and it didn't work to make them take us seriously lmao
9:24 PM
But, let's go back to the topic of this channel... How to know if a walk/let-in has consciousness?
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Bruhhh
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Reply to: I had to put "it's not roleplay" as my system tag in a server cuz of that ~~and it didn't work to ma…
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Makikikikiki
But, let's go back to the topic of this channel... How to know if a walk/let-in has consciousness?
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 9:25 PM
you decide
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You can also try intelligence tests if u don't want to.
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 9:25 PM
if you don’t decide, you let it be decided by a whim
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Lol
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Khaos
You can also try intelligence tests if u don't want to.
Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:28 PM
Oh good ideia ^^
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
you decide
Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:29 PM
I know of a person who "decided" a let-in was not conscious, but after a long time it returned, angry that the host ignored them for so long I don't wanna it happening with me too
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Tbh that's why I don't try anything unless it is actually sentient bc sometimes walk ins are really strong
9:31 PM
And don't fade easily
9:32 PM
Like u could think of it as how they even somehow exist by a guess
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Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:32 PM
So, that's what I wanna know.how to know if a walk-in is sentient
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Try intelligence tests for example and see if they can describe themselves etc.
9:33 PM
Brb
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Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:33 PM
Ok, thanks a lot ❤️
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Makikikikiki
I know of a person who "decided" a let-in was not conscious, but after a long time it returned, angry that the host ignored them for so long I don't wanna it happening with me too
I was under the impression that in tulpamancy, you have control over things that you are aware of So if you're aware of a walk-in, you can decide not to accept them The only instance i've had of a seeming walk-in act like that was when james appeared, and i figured out he's not a tulpa because of how harmful he's been
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Kei Wendt
I was under the impression that in tulpamancy, you have control over things that you are aware of So if you're aware of a walk-in, you can decide not to accept them The only instance i've had of a seeming walk-in act like that was when james appeared, and i figured out he's not a tulpa because of how harmful he's been
Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 9:36 PM
The system I talked about was a tulpamancer, but well, I'm new to this
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Well, i'd wait for other opinions too because i'm not 100% sure But kitkat and khaos have given their opinions Pick what seems right to you, it's your decision
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Makikikikiki
I know of a person who "decided" a let-in was not conscious, but after a long time it returned, angry that the host ignored them for so long I don't wanna it happening with me too
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 9:39 PM
I wouldn’t be surprised if they were hanging out with people that implanted unhealthy ideas that led to that (edited)
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 9:48 PM
those things come from misunderstanding how tulpamancy works and tulpamancer disempowering themself
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Skyler 🐉 BOT 7/2/2023 9:50 PM
tulpamancy is heavily influenced by expectations and belief. If you think they’ll come back angry, they’ll probably come back angry. If you think they won’t come back, they probably won’t come back.
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Testing to see if a random thoughtform is sentient is just putting time towards developing them. The more attention you give them, the more they'll develop, so if you don't want them just ignore them and don't hold on to any idea that they're somehow already full tulpas
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Makikikikiki
But, let's go back to the topic of this channel... How to know if a walk/let-in has consciousness?
They don’t, ever, by default. That’s the best mindset to have. The belief that a ‘walk in’ is not even real
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Yeah that's why they're often called let-ins in this server
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The more time you focus on it the more it’s going to act real because you are basically just forcing it
10:00 PM
So it was never sentient in the beginning, you investigating it instead of ignoring it is what started sentience. You let it in by giving it attention
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Plus if you already have vocal headmates, pretty much any thoughtform can become vocal the moment you talk to it
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I can say hello to a lamp and my mind can create a realistic automatic response. Doesn’t make the lamp sentient
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 10:02 PM
that lamp can also make up some stories like it being sentient for the last 5 years and being angry at you for all that time you ignored it
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I think there can be some truth to those stories depending on the context but I mostly agree
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I had an intrusive thoughtform one time that claimed it was "always there" which obviously wasn't true. It's just that I'd heard such a narrative before so the idea could spring up
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Makikikikiki 7/2/2023 10:05 PM
I see... Yeah, it makes a lot of sense Thanks a lot everyone!
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something i wrote some time ago, related to the topic (doesn't seem so in the beginning but it is): Tulpas grow as people fastest when they are not kept just in their head with their host and are allowed to interact with other people, because as social creatures we use other people as mirrors to learn about ourselves. Making your own, separate experiences, also help with separation, and affirmation from other people makes it a truly magical experience. The trick is though that if you let your tulpa interact with other people, they are “personality forced” by other people as well, which might not be the best if those people are unstable, toxic or spread a lot of harmful misinformation. some tulpamancers suffer from their intrusive thoughts or jungian shadow getting manifested in a form of tulpa. Unfortunately, beside “personality forcing” is what I would call “system forcing” which is forming a set of beliefs about what tulpamancy is, what tulpas are, ethics regarding tulpas etc, a set of expectations about tulpamancy that later drive all the experience of Tulpamancy. And ”system forcing” can be done by other people you surround yourself with as well, and/or by guides you read. So, let’s say, a community “system forced” you to believe that tulpas are sentient independent beings equal to you, and that dissipation is murder. Your intrusive thought or shadow manifests itself as a tulpa, without a good support becomes the worst version of itself, builds a huge amount of independence and doesn’t want to go away, because it fears dissipation to death. From personal experience and experience of other people I know that it then gets incredibly hard to fix and work through, and it is an unnecessary self-inflicted problem.
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Yuka
Testing to see if a random thoughtform is sentient is just putting time towards developing them. The more attention you give them, the more they'll develop, so if you don't want them just ignore them and don't hold on to any idea that they're somehow already full tulpas
berockly (TTG) 7/2/2023 10:30 PM
Trying to see if a thoughtform is sentient is just stupid
10:30 PM
It doesnt matter
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berockly (TTG)
Trying to see if a thoughtform is sentient is just stupid
Why are you telling me that?
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berockly (TTG) 7/2/2023 10:33 PM
Just a reply
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I didn’t realize this was something that was so controversial lookingdownsmile
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/2/2023 10:39 PM
replying is not controversial
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Contentious is probably a better word
10:40 PM
I am talkizjf in the wrong tulpa questions channel lmao
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If you've been around other tulpa servers and especially general plural servers you can see what happens when people feel morally obliged to accept every "walk-in." It can really take over their lives, can you imagine deciding to make one tulpa and ending up with dozens? Hundreds?
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I meant the parallel processing
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Does tulpas have different handwriting than the host?
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Skyler 🐉 BOT 7/3/2023 4:04 PM
they can
4:04 PM
but not all do
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Nebula 💖 7/3/2023 4:04 PM
Sometimes, I do.
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I know it's a silly question, just curious
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We don’t
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Deleted User 7/3/2023 5:06 PM
are there any exercises i could do to try and get my tulpa to be more vocal? like in the sense of going more in depth with their answers to questions and stuffKanna_rawr
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 7/3/2023 5:08 PM
do stuff and talk about said stuff
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theres no hurry either, just talk every day about anything whenever you feel like it
5:09 PM
going for a simple walk is always a good time
5:11 PM
people dont always feel like talking super in depth either so theres no need to coax too much i think
5:15 PM
random doc of stuff to do i found with super quick google-fu
5:17 PM
i think doing something fun together will eventually lead to longer sentences just because you stop thinking too much and it starts just happening
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Deleted User 7/3/2023 6:47 PM
sorry for the late reply but thank you so much!!happytears Cat_love Cat_love
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CuddlyCarcinogen {🍡} 7/4/2023 12:40 AM
Is there anything u can do for a new-ish tulpa who is really embarressed and nervous to chat with anyone or experience stuff out of our headspace? Im not gonna pressure him into it or anything but i wonder if he might enjoy interacting with the world a lil- anyways just wasnt sure if ppl have had similar experiences? Hes like- developmentally 2 or 3 so i understand toddlers experience lots of big feelings as they grow
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Deleted User 7/4/2023 12:41 AM
to simulate convos with anyone other than me i just play choose-your-path games with my tulpatransparentman
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CuddlyCarcinogen {🍡} 7/4/2023 12:43 AM
Ooo!
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I like to play rock paper scissors with Kitt even though he/we can chat just fine
12:45 AM
It’s just neat
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A long kiss goodnight
You should post that in Tips & Tricks on the forums
I've been using a technique to enhance the clarity of visualization of my tulpa for a long time; I don't know if it's been posted to the forum yet, so I thought I'd contribute it here. To start, imagine your tulpa in whatever level of detail you can--typically I like to have them in a neutral pos...
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A long kiss goodnight 7/4/2023 7:44 AM
Hooray! I'll add it to Tips & Tricks after I finish sleeping after this insomnia 😅
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So uhhh about 1.5 months ago I think I banished a person from my mind and was wondering if it's possible to get them back? (edited)
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 7/4/2023 3:11 PM
yes
3:11 PM
just talk
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blanka was gone 2018/2019-2023 and they're almost back at full strength MarkdownContext { Depth = 1 }
3:11 PM
it's only been about a month since I restarted
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Just remember stuff about them and start interacting again
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Thank you!
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